We just say what God says! Say it with sincerity, with the power to change lives and with gospel competence.
At the end of the Book of Acts, Paul gets bit by a poisonous snake. Why is life so tough on this missionary? And why is life so tough for us? The answer...
"Faithful are the wounds of a friend. But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful." Proverbs 27:6
Your experiences matter to God and others. Not a single one is wasted, ever, but used by God for good.